Robert  Bender

Robert Benjamin Bender

Tuesday, January 1st, 1957 - Tuesday, August 4th, 2020
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Robert Benjamin Bender, 63, of Coldwater, passed away Tuesday, August 4, 2020 at his home. Following the wishes of Robert, cremation has taken place and a memorial service will be held at a later date.
Bob was born to Robert George and Lois Jean (Layman) Bender on January 1, 1957 in Paulding, OH. Upon graduation, he had continued on to honorably serve his country in the United States Airforce. During his service, Robert met his wife Miriam Brugiatti and on December 30, 1992 they were married and she survives. Bob had been employed as a truck driver and was a member of the NRA. He liked computers but the outdoors was his passion; he enjoyed hunting, fishing, and shooting.
In addition to his wife Miriam, Robert is survived by one son Jason Bender of Sturgis; his two siblings Mary Rothfuss of Brooklyn, MI, Al (Kim) Bender of Missouri; one step-son Joel (Tania) Nieves; three step-grandchildren Anthony, Natalie, Jaqueline; one niece Angie (Ruben) Avery; two great nieces Amanda and Sarah; and one great nephew Dillon.
Robert was preceded in death by his parents.
Funeral Arrangements are entrusted to Dutcher Funeral Home in Coldwater.
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Charles Melton Jr.

Posted at 12:40am
Bob and I backpacked in Missouri a few times. He was a speed demon in the trail. He called it "Deathmarch". Bob, you can take your time now. I'll see you on down the trail.

Jackie Hunter

Posted at 10:50pm
My condolences to the family. I was his cousin Jackie nothing but great memories with Bob I always called him Bingo when I was little. I will miss you cousin.💔💗😘

Thomas Smith

Posted at 10:12am
He is my oldest friend.
From 8 years old to now.
You will be missed sorely Big Brother.
Glad I got to tell you I love you for always having my back.
I'll be with you and Leroy someday .
I'll look after Meriam best I can Bro I know how much you loved her.

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