Cheryl I was sadden when I heard, but WOW you did a wonderful job writing the obituary,we had 9 others do my mom's and finally gave it to the oldest.So many memories hit me, and what you put in hers was wonderful. I know that your mom is at peace and is in a happier place.Please do not let anyone beat you down for anything you were wonderful with the decisions you forced to make and I applaude you for stepping up to the plate..You always included her everything you did with your family and work. hate to put this in but it will make you smile -NO MORE BOILED HAM...LOVE M